Thanks Dave. I am a member on thedieselgarage.com forums. The Ford guys seem to like DPTUNER, DP said get a 60hp tune, then I'd get the high idle, EBPV brake, and stock. Yep, I'll throw in a pyro too. Southbend clutch seems to be really popular too, I'll check your links also.
FIRST I still have to service my ball joints, planning them for next week (sorry Mike/devildog). I've had his ball joint press for weeks. From what I've read my hub bearings are probably shot too, and on the ford you have to replace the whole assembly, not just the bearing. With my year truck (early 99) the front end was a little different than the others, along with some other things, and the hub's are even more expensive. Might just do the Dynatrac kit and be done with it.
One step at a time.