It suck Reg. But I try to take a different view of it to get over welches.
They just left a slot open for a better client. That slot will fill.
I was always under the impression that if you couldn't do business by someone's word, they weren't worth friggin' with in the first place. I've been burned in the past by similar people, so i was taught to give the estimate on the back of a business card, then take a pic of it with your phone. Then that way it's in writing for both of you to see, but you don't have to have the formal signed estimate, which pisses off men of their word. If declarations of written estimates, time guarantees, etc start coming up, I'm walking, because they will be impossible to please. Scarcity is attractive, so when you refuse work at the drop of a hat, they want you to do it more. So with that in mind, i suggest they get other bids to make sure they are getting the best deal. Good clients love the honesty, and will refer you to others even if you don't get that particular job.
I also think some clients regard contractors in general as an adversary, they probably tell themselves its ok to be a scumbag because we charge too high or are just out there to rip them off.
I wouldn't mind some feedback on this one that popped up yesterday, its got me a bit confused:
Last year did a removal, long story short cracked a $5.00 concrete paver, I offered ( Sean's Recommendation) to withhold $200 of the bill until fixed by either myself or their own landscaper. I followed up a couple times customer fobbed me off. I left it alone figuring it was a waste of time.
This guy now wants a quote on what sounds like a 1-2 day dead wooding job. I wanted to raise the matter of the paver when I go around there but figure that could jeopardize the quote. Maybe I say nothing and just add a bit to the price but I really don't know if I should even be trusting him at all?
People like you who follow the rules wouldn't, I suppose .
Fi, in the simplest terms...cash, if you don't declare it as income, like you do, is an untraceable resource. Spend it where you wish, nobody in the tax office is the wiser where it came from.