Martial arts styles are like religions.
Everyone thinks theirs is The Way.
A lot of that comes from the fact that when someone starts doing martial arts, they don't know enough about it to make an educated choice.
They just pick the nearest one, the one with the most handsome instructor or whatever their good buddy happens to be doing.
Then they are told by their instructor, that their style is the cat's ass.
So they go through life believing just that, without ever putting it to the test.
I trained the style I started with at 17 believing just that, then when I took to travelling, I tried out a LOT of other things.
When I eventually settled on what I do now, I had about 20 years of martial arts training behind me.
Enough to make a somewhat educated choice.
I've stuck with my dojo for the last 23 years because I really like the instructor and his approach to things, not because I think the style is "THE BEST".
I like the place we are at, with an about equal balance between keeping to the traditional way and rembering why we train, which is not so we can do a cute kata at a tournament, but so we can beat the crap out of an opponent in an actual fight.
Last year we had a new " Beginner" come in.
He has done Kyokushin for 26 years at top level ( I've known him a long time, used to teach at his school as a guest instructor+ he is a tree man),
He met my instructor at a seminar, decided what we do is way better and dropped his black belt with all the fine gold stripes in order to start as a white belt beginner at my dojo.
I've been his personal mentor since he started, he is really good to work with.
I really respect somebody like that.