Jim, I think the way that folks think when living out in the country is a major factor in you checking out those kids.
We are used to being dependant on each other when the shit hits the fan, so we look after each other differently from those who live in big cities.
When I had my little encounter with the man with the scythe, I don't think I would have come out of it alive, if my neighbours hadn't helped out.
In 1999 we had a major storm while I was in California.
My x-wife ran up to the neighbours and told them the roof was blowing off the barn.
They had a family dinner going with lots of people, and everybody just stood up, came down and set to nailing in whatever lumber I had laying around, to hold the roof down.