As for Scotland, they voted to stay in a referendum two years ago, that, plus the fact that the EU won't countenance accepting them in the short term should buy five years.
By then the situation may have changed, there's only 5.25 million in Scotland, things can change fast in such a small political fishpond.
We're all learning new things about democracy over here, some of it unpleasant, like you say, it's great till you lose.
The other European leaders (with the exception of Merkel who's been conciliatory) have been bullish, but not batshit about it.
I think it will be, as a political commentator said, not as good as some hoped, but not as bad as some feared.