David, your problem with your pot head neighbors is the fact that you live on a postage stamp worth of property and can smell what everyone is making for dinner. Ya gots no elbow room.
Burnham, at least it seems your new neighbors have some consideration, and that's something to be grateful for.
Recently some new, younger folks moved in next to Rob. There's almost 100yrd of separation between the houses, so their youthful parties aren't to terrible. When they first moved in, every time I started my dirt bike, someone over there would start an obnoxious two stroke. Every time I got back from a ride, they'd start the two smoke again, and start ripping wheelies and such on the blind hill in front of the house. Not the kinda person I want to ride with, ever. Took them over a month to knock it off, and now, they've cut me off and played stupid games on the road while I'm riding, twice. I'm willing to forgive all that, but their taste in music is absolutely unforgivable, they listen to that country rap, an abomination born from the tainted womb of the worst forms of music. I swear, it's what Satan listens to, on the loudspeakers of hell. These are people whom I do not want to meet or interact with. Luckily, they stay on their side of the fence, so I reckon they're good neighbors.
I have three modes with neighbors. 1, complete ignorance, I know nothing, and do not care to learn. 2, quiet friendship, the best kind of neighbors, rare, but always friendly interaction, freely trading favors. 3, FEUD! this is war, there is no surrender, no retreat, no quarter, no mercy. Shove a live racoon through the doggie door at 3 am kinda feud. Flatten tires by removing and replacing valve cores, and hide raw chicken in the body panels kinda feud. Or my personal favorite, TP the big tree in front of the house, immediately before a light rainstorm, that was epic!
Basically, my philosophy is "Be nice, or I won't."
Stephen has fine neighbors, a veritable crowd of good folk, several of whom I've had the pleasure of both meeting and working for. It's a lovely little community, really, so I always try to be on my best behavior, which is likely sub par, as an uncivilized neanderthal.