Truthfully, it was the video and Erik's comment that he is pretty sure that later he's going to regret these years when his kids are young.
Didn't mean to derail, just caught me when he said that. My dad always worked super hard to 'get ahead' and 'provide'. As a '70's divorced family, we only saw him every other weekend, and he thought that as we three boys aged, his 'time with us' would naturally come, but it didn't. He got sick with Parkingson's by the time I was a teenager. My grand parents worked all the time, looking forward to the "golden years", GP and GM died within 2 days of each other, two years after GP retired, when I was very little. You know when the Golden Years are...right, now, and now, and now.
People often get excited about their kids coming to work with them someday, and of course we want our kids to be proud, and we are all hard workers and get it done, and sacrifice time away from them. Its important to instill a work ethic, and skills, and also, to play in the dirt if the kids want to play in the dirt, or have a tea party and giggle.
Erik is lining out his gear nicely. Just that nobody is going to give too much of a shit about things with a back injury. The power moving is great. Getting away from the manual lifting is more of what is going to leave us our bodies in shape for ourselves and our families. I have young backs to use, and hire tools at times. Erik and business partner avoid employees and their headaches, but that leaves nobody to do the lifting forever except them, and its the miles, and the years put together that add up (he types with a heating pad on the tight muscles in his back, loosening them up for the day).
D really likes to be held on the left side, so my right side tightens up, then I climb trees and help on the ground as needed, until...).