That's right no reef points anywhere. Each sail was either up or down.
Never run bare poles, hove to for extreme weather was mizzen staysail or main staysail sheeted tight, helm over. We had a drogue ready to deploy, never needed it.
Only ever hove to twice in the time I was on board, once in the Med, we were in force 9 with force 11 forecast ahead of us, no point sailing into that, we hove to and let the system pass in front of us. The other time, I can't quite remember where we were, somewhere on the Europe side of the Atlantic...the old auto pilot packed it in and the seas were horrible and the wind was contrary, only two of us and to hand steer all night, nah...so again we just hove to and let the worst go on by. Not long after that is when we fitted her out with an Aries wind vane we named 'Harold', our third crew member.
Parting was indeed bittersweet. However, chapters in life close, and others begin.