We went with the "we're all in the elderly crowd and have to play it smart (or scaredy cat, take your pick)" program...Oregon, like many other parts of the country, is seeing exponential growth of infection, with more deaths every day now. Hospitals in both urban and rural areas are near, at, or over capacity in ICUs.
One couple, dear close friends, and us...we all four agreed to isolate for two weeks prior, so we could have a small comfortable indoor gathering day together. It was fun.