Re grade 8's, I have a flatbed which hauls a 9k lbs machine, and it's pintle ring is held on by 2 grade 8 bolts. Every 3 or 4 yrs, I discover one of the bolts has broken at the nut. The load is on the bolts crosswise, like on the kboom tip, instead of along the vertical axis which would be much stronger. Seeing those broken bolts 2x's made me realize they aren't bulletproof at all.
Fwiw, I recently had some welding to the ring area to beef things up and take some load off the grade 8's.