Ok, I understand your reasoning, Burnham. I guess what I was driving at is that given some circumstances, it could be a never ending thing if we allow ourselves to be victims of other peoples opinions, when what is prompting that is hearsay or some concept other than the people actually knowing us themselves.....even based upon a word. I wouldn't be so thick as to also not agree that in some situations it could be a concern. To what degree do we want to walk on egg shells for other people? Sometimes I believe that it becomes a relevant question. Some folks will always be quick to condemn others when they don't know what the real deal is, and often prompted by the strife in their own life, or just generally from some weird desire to be mean. Kid's stuff, and catering to that bs could drive you crazy if you were a person a lot in the public's eye.